Friday, March 15, 2013

Texting girls is an art!

Texting girls is an art.  Lots of man that take girls number for the first time John know how to start the conversation, whether to call or to send a message, so usually they choose what is easier. They send a message and fail right from the first one.  After that they think that that woman didn't like them because of their appearance or maybe something else but very often it starts from a small detail such as text message.

So what are the purposes of texting?
1) Men are trying to start a connection between them and girls.

2) Men simply want to stay in touch while they see their girl next time.

3) Men are texting girls to lift bring their relationship to the point, where they can easily start flirting.

But before we start talking about messages, I would like to talk a little bit about some serious mistakes that men often make when texting girls.

1) Sense-less messages that bear no meaning. Messages like “how’s going?” or “what’s up” are just the same messages as your target girl gets every day from many other guys that target her, so why would your message be one to answer?

2) If you send messages every hour, then trust me, the girl will never be waiting for your message, because she will be sure, that you are going to write soon again. There is no intrigue in your actions, if you are predictable.

3) And the very last mistake is when a guy tries to have a conversation over the messages, but through the live talk. Messages are not created for people to get to know each other.

Every time, when you send her a message, there is to be a part of fun and flirtatiousness. Forget about messages, that don’t show who you are. But don’t give out to much of yourself, because you will lose the intrigue.
Every woman wants a man that she will love to spend time with, so if your start of relationship was a boring message, that she even forgot to answer, you better be doing something else…

Here are the three main rules, of how men should be texting girls.

1) The message must contain value. What do I mean by that? Try to write messages, that a girl wouldn’t have to answer, but still would do it. How? How about… “I was working and for some reason you popped up in my head, so just wanted to say hi”. It gives her desire to shoot you back, cause you are being nice with her, even during the time you work. Of course, you’ve been thinking about her all day long, but make her to feel like wasn’t thinking about her at all.

2) Do short messages. If you write long messages, you are becoming predictable, so try to always give her something like a movie trailer, so she would be inpatient to watch the rest of it.

3) Have you ever waited for her answer to your message for few hours? Well…lots of men did… You know why? There were no roller coaster effect in you messages. If you normally answer back within few minutes, it makes you to be predictable. So try to not answer the message right away, wait for 20 minutes. Sometimes even one hour or one day would be good, because you want to remain vogue and leave her wondering.

So again, don’t answer every question they ask, try to flirt, be unpredictable, leave the sweetest moments of your chats for face to face meetings and stop being boring in your messages.
Watch this video and change your love life forever:
http://www.innerstrengthproject.com/gethotbabes.cfm

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Targeting Emotions in Your Texts


I want to change the way you think about sending
text messages.

And the massive re-frame I want to instill in you
is to switch your thinking from:
“What should I write?”

To
“What emotion do I want to create in her?”

What’s interesting is that when you make this
mental switch… it suddenly becomes much easier to
craft the perfect message.

This is because most guys have such trouble figuring
out what to write a girl because they don’t really
have an end goal in mind…

Every text you send should have some sort of goal.
And that goal should always be to ignite very
specific emotions in the woman receiving the text.

We live in what I call an “Attention Deficit World”…
Every girl you’re interacting with has hundreds of
messages bombarding her every day (she has Facebook
messages, IM chats, texts, phone calls, Skype,
Twitter, Plenty of Fish….)

You are competing for her very limited attention span…

If your message doesn’t stir some sort of emotion in
her… it’s going to get lost in the shuffle…
(and so are you)

On the other hand, when you learn how to use texts
to constantly trigger emotions in a woman she can get
”emotionally addicted” to you…

And when this happens you completely flip the switch
and she starts CHASING YOU.

And I want to be clear right now that stirring
emotions in a woman has NOTHING to do with using flowery,
descriptive stories…

Your aim is NOT to write emotional texts…
It’s for her to have an emotional response to the
texts you send.

So let’s examine some different emotional responses…
- Laughter
- Suspense
- Anger
- Confusion
- Anticipation
- Joy
- Disappointment
- Trust
- Fear
WHOA…

You’re probably looking at that list and thinking why
in the world would I want to create anger or
disappointment?

And the answer is because your only goal is to snap her
out of her boredom trance and get her thinking about
YOU.

And the bigger variety of emotions that you can produce
her… the more time she spends thinking about you…
Let me ask you something….

What happens when someone angers you?

Chances are you spend the next hour playing over the
situation in your mind, thinking about it, analyzing it….

That person, whoever made you angry, has found a way to
capture your limited attention span…

I have a friend whose opening line in a bar is to
repeatedly poke a woman in her back…

This usually pisses her off… And when she turns to
face him she’s extremely angry…

BUT he now has her FULL ATTENTION (something hard to
get in bar or nightclub)

And he knows how to transition that anger into sexual
attraction… (this is a skill you can learn)

And he is extremely successful with women.

Let’s examine some other emotions and how to use
them to capture a woman’s attention..

How about “suspense”

If you text a girl “I just realized you totally
remind me of…”

And then DO NOT finish the sentence or text her back
when she asks “who?”…

She will be in SUSPENSE for the next hour wondering
who she reminds you of.

Its human nature. It’s how television shows get us
to sit through commercials…

How about laughter?

Who doesn’t like to laugh?

Instead of simply saying, “What you doing later?”
(Logical and boring)

Prelude it with a humorous anecdote:

“I think the world is coming to an end. I just saw
an old man roller blading with nothing but tube socks
and a fanny pack. So what you doing later?”

By triggering the emotional response of laughter, she’ll
be much more open to your suggestion to hang out later…

Every text exchange should elicit some sort of emotion
in her…

While you’re still learning this its handy to take
a look at this “emotion wheel”.

And try to make sure that you’re hitting a wide variety
of emotions during your various text exchanges.

==> It’s all laid out in this video: http://www.innerstrengthproject.com/gethotbabes.cfm
Make it happen!

P.S. Becaue you have time to think things through,
texting can be one of your most deadly tools in
controlling a woman’s attraction towards you.
==>Watch this video to learn the 3 Texts to Attraction
http://www.innerstrengthproject.com/gethotbabes.cfm

Example Texts (how to express interest over text)

One of the questions I get a lot is "How do let
a girl know how I feel over text?"

Here's the thing...

While its almost always better to SHOW (not tell)
a woman how you feel IN PERSON...

Sometimes you MUST express your interest over text
to avoid the dreaded friend zone....

I've asked  Rob (co-creator of Magnetic
Messaging) to help out with this dilemna.

So I got him to provide 3 examples of texts that
achieve this purpose.

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How to express interest... without scaring her away.
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Text 1:  The Romantic Commando

"haha it's stormy... wish you were here to cuddle
under a blanket, drink wine, and watch a RAMBO
movie"

This is a great text to send to a girl you're seeing,
or have in a "holding pattern" (i.e., a girl you're
trying to meet up with, but logistics are screwing you
over). It's sweet, romantic, but also manly as Chuck Norris
in a vat of testosterone.

Be Prince Charming, but keep your manly dignity.

Text 2:  KNOW ANY?

"haha joker... I downloaded Tron and need some cute
nery girl to watch it with"

"Know any?;)

A big part of texting girls is learning how to give a
compliment without coming off like ass-kissing chump. Saying
flattering things--but saying them in interesting ways--is the
best way to work a phone number into a date.

This text is a perfect example of that. By playfully inviting
a girl to a movie, but calling her "cute" and "nerdy," and
then flirtatiously negating the invitation by adding,
"Know any?" is a great way to keep things smoldering
(especially with cute, nerdy chicks).

==> Learn how to turn her on and get her out with 3 texts

Text 3:  Traditional Date

"We must spawn Zoolander children. Keep your day planner
open for tomorrow."

As I said before, one the best texting skills a man can learn
is the ability to give compliments without coming off weird or
creepy. Most guys tell girls they're hot or beautiful or some
permutation of the two.

It's much better, however, to complement a girl in tandem--or,
in other words, make a cocky statement about yourself while
also giving her a complement. My favorite way to do this is by
commenting on how great your future children will be. When you
tell her you want to have Zoolander babies with her, you're not
only telling her she's hot and you're hot, but you're also
implying you're going to have sex--all while you keep it funny.

Win, win, win.

Texting can MAKE OR BREAK your chance of getting a woman out
on a date...

We put together a short video explaining how to use just
three texts to turn a woman on a get her out on a date.

==> Watch the video now: http://www.innerstrengthproject.com/gethotbabes.cfm

Make it happen!
 V Max

Why "text conversations" Annoy Her... (and what to do instead)

Most men use text messages DEAD WRONG.
And they make one of these three common mistakes:

1.  Totally boring her (and even annoying her) by
sending dry, logical, and un-original texts.

2.  Capture her attention but then spin their
wheels going nowhere until the attraction fizzles
out..

3.  Or spend months playing "textual grabass"
with her, all the while she's f**king some other
guy.

Here is a true but unfortunate fact:

When a woman gives you her phone number you have a
small window of opportunity to turn that number into
a meet-up, sex, or a relationship...

Every second that goes by... that window begins closing
and your chances of ever getting her out begins to
quickly disappear.

Here is another fact:

1.  The next step can only come in person.

This is where the majority of men mess up. 

You might think that having a handful of "text
conversations" is helping your cause...

But it's not.

There is a tiny little voice in every woman's
head that tells her "If he was "THE ONE" then
it would have happened already..."

Women desperately want to believe that when there
is "chemistry" they'll be swept away...

This is why when you engage in "logical" back
and forth conversation with a woman over text...

You're kissing your chances good by. (Poof gone)

So what should you do instead?

It's pretty simple.

After sending a couple "radar" texts just to get her
thinking about you...

Each of your following texts should then be specifically
designed to lead toward a meet-up.

My friend Rob actually have a specific sequence of texts
he sends women to accomplish this over and over again.

He calls it "The Key Lock Sequence"

And we've put a video explaining exactly how it works

==> Discover the "Key Lock Sequence" now

The video also explains an "attraction loophole" you
can exploit to your advantage.

Knowing how to take advantage of this loophole will
lead to more dates, and more women back to your
bedroom.

It will also make damn sure you don't text your way
into  the friend zone.

==>Watch the video now: http://www.innerstrengthproject.com/gethotbabes.cfm

Make it happen!

V Max

P.S.  Have you ever spent months texting a girl
only to realize you were just her "text buddy"?
This video explains why:
http://www.innerstrengthproject.com/gethotbabes.cfm

7 Deadly Texting Mistakes (part 2)

Yesterday we discussed four mistkaes men make when texting women that totally scare off or repel a girl who was previosly interested..

Let’s face it… texting women can be downright confusing…

(What to write, what did her last text mean, how long should I wait to text her again, Is she ignoring my texts?)

The worst part is when the girl stops responding or just seems to dissapear.. you never quite know why…

Chances are it can be rooted down to one of these mistakes…

Even though all of these mistakes are subtle… they have a powerful ability to kill attraction quickly.
So let’s get into it.

Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion

Here is another hard, cold fact. If you ask a woman to hang out, without first sparking and emotion.. she will almost always turn you down.
Why?

Because all of the positive emotions she felt when she was with you has dwindled.
And the thought of getting dressed up, and going to meet a guy she barely knows (and the potential you’ll turn out to be a creep or just akward) is not worth the effort.

Logically she can easily talk herself out of it.
Which is why you MUST engage her on an emotional level first.

It is MUCH easier to get a “yes” out of a woman once you’ve sparked a positive emotion.
The two best ways to do this are with flirting or humor.

Here’s an important concept: She is NOT going to remember all your good qualities. So it’s your JOB to remind her.

Mistake #6: Becoming too “Predictable”

Lets say that you’ve now succeeded in getting up a date with a girl. You may think you’re home free when it comes to texting, but there’s still some things you need to keep in mind to ensure you CONTINUE to see your girls.

First, you never want to fall into predictable patterns. Lots of guys use the same jokes, same questions, and same texts over and over. While it may be easier to fall into “complacency” with a woman you’re dating, don’t do it!

Instead, break things up with some spicy ever once in a while. Tell her you have a “surprise” to show her later. Tell her something reminded you of her, but don’t tell her what it is right away. Ask her to send you a funny picture of something (or send her a funny picture of something).

Keep her guessing what your text will be and you’ll keep her interested in you. Moreover, keeping the “spark” of a relationship alive is very important when it comes to creating a great sex life.
As long as you don’t become ultra predictable, you should have your girl texting YOU asking YOU when you’re available to hang out.

Mistake #7: Thinking She’s Different

I have stressed over and over again “Never tell a girl how you feel about her over text”…
Yet, day after day I get emails from students telling me a story about how they confessed their feelings to a girl over text…

And every time- they scare the girl away.
In your mind, you’re going to try to convince yourself that “She is different.”
Or that “It won’t work on her”

But the minute you tell yourself ‘she’s different’ you are on the road to losing her…
Guys continually do things like:
- Texting her too much
- Paying her gushing compliments over text
- Not asking her to hang out because you’re scared…

And time and time again they’ll face the same consequences as all the other guys have…
She’s not different. And if anytime you start thinkingshe is pull out this email and re-read it.
Ok…

So now that you know the big mistakes you need to avoid its time formulate a solid game plan.
In this video you’re going to learn how to turn your phone into a magnet… by using a specific sequence of texts called: The Key Lock Sequence.
Watch the video now:  http://www.innerstrengthproject.com/gethotbabes.cfm

Some of the things you’ll learn:
- How to captilize on attraction before it fades
- The single biggest ingredient for capturing her attention
- 3 specific types of texts you need to send (in order) to turn her on and get her anxious to meet up.
Watch the video now:

http://www.innerstrengthproject.com/gethotbabes.cfm

7 Deadly “Texting” Mistakes (and how to avoid them) Part 1

One of the most frustrating things is when you get a woman’s number (and she seems to be totally into you)

… But then after a few texts she seems to list interest, fizzle out, or go cold.

The natural reaction is to blame the woman. “She’s a flake…”

But if you do that, you could missing a giant crink in YOUR GAME that is easier to fix than you think.

In fact, if you’re like most guys than you’re probably just making one (or a few) of these common ‘texting’ mistakes that will kill your chances with a girl.
==> New video: 3 Texts To Turn Her On and Get Her Out
http://www.innerstrengthproject.com/gethotbabes.cfm

The 7 Deadly Texting Mistakes

Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction

Before you’ve had your first date with a girl, she won’t feel much of a connection to you. As unfortunate as it may be, you’re probably not the only guy texting her.

See, a common mistake most guys make when they’re texting a girl is that they mistake responses for attraction. Often when a guy is getting a response from a girl, he believes that he’s getting closer to getting her on a date or to seducing her.

The exact opposite is true!

The more texts you send before meeting up with girl means the less of a chance you have of actually meeting up with her! That’s right: even if a girl is RESPONDING to your texts, you’re not getting yourself ANY closer to actually getting her out on a date.

Instead, say more with less. Whenever you’re considering what to text a girl, see if you say it simpler, with less text. Most guys send pointless texts to women like, “How’s your day?” or “Enjoying the warm weather?” These texts DO NOT bring you ANY closer to a woman! They just beg for a response (which doesn’t mean anything).

To make sure you NEVER again waste texts on pointless chatter, ask yourself this golden question:
How is this text bringing this girl and I closer to a date?

If your answer is simply “to get her to know her better,” erase the text. It’s not going to help you.
==> New video: 3 Texts To Turn Her On and Get Her Out
http://www.innerstrengthproject.com/gethotbabes.cfm

Mistake #2: Not Conveying “Fun”

Here is the simple truth. When a woman gives you her number she is NOT signing a social contract to go out with you…
And until it seems FUN for her… she’s probably not going to bother meeting up with you.
So when you send boring texts that don’t display any personality or don’t elicit any emotions in her… in her mind you’re not worth the trouble of meeting up with.
Here are some signs you’re NOT being fun.
- Am I being stiff and formal “Hi. It was nice meeting you friday”…. (too stiff. too formal)
- Am I putting pressure on her to keep the convo going?
- Am I badering her with question?
Remember, every text you send should make you seem likethe FUN OPTION. The escape from her boring day.

Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style
If you’re texting an attractive woman chances are you are NOT the only guy she is getting a text from today.
Hate to break it to you.
But between other guys pursuing her, ex boyfriends, co-workers, classmates, and so on… she’s got a lot of guys vying for her attention.
So if you want to stand out- your texts need to display your unique style and personality.
She should be able to know its a text from you just by reading it (even if the name was blocked)
What words, phrases, punctuation, or emoticons are uniquely yours?
Mistake #4 Having Long Text Conversations
Text conversations are NOT the same as actual conversations.
Texting should be the “Super cool” cliff notes of a normal conversations. Meaning leave out the formalities.
The longer the conversation the more chances to mess things up or run into akward confusion.
Everytime you pick up the phone… jump right into the good stuff. Start with anectdote. Start with a teasing nickname. Find a way to quickly spark an emotion and get her paying full attention to you.
In this new video just released I explain how you can (and should) accomplish everything you need to accomplish with just three simple texts.
==>watch the video

http://www.innerstrengthproject.com/gethotbabes.cfm

Tomorrow I’ll be back with three more of the common texting mistakes men make.
In the meantime, check out the video and learn how you can turn a woman on, and get her out on a date with a simple sequence of texts called: The Key Lock Sequence.


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